... TO A MOST WONDERFUL DELIGHTFUL AFFECTIONATE BLESSED CHARMING
MAN on 14 Dec 2013!
Walking down the aisle in daddy's arm...
Ok that was two days ago. Forgive the remiss. Yours truly
had been real busy getting herself properly wedded. Only able to get hold of
this laptop and recounting the extraordinary journey right now, in BALI
nonetheless, on my ehem… honeymoon.
And hey, I am that word called WIFE now! That’s a promotion
of the highest order in a girl’s life. Not to belong to someone, but to have
found her soul mate and begin a wonderful journey together. It’s been really
amazing. How I got myself into this position right now is beyond me. Only by
the grace of God.
Two rings to unite them all...
This is one of those times when saying it is just not good
enough. It has to be shouted and proclaimed out loud because it deserves the
special mention. After the surprise proposal in July (which you can read here),
the proper official engagement in September (and here), and the following
months of preparation plus countdown (and here and here), it comes down to this
one memorable day in December: THE
OTTERS BIG DAY.
It’s so amazing it’s unbelievable. Have not been able to
stop smiling despite been standing on 4.5inch heels all day, all night and then
going a few rounds. And still standing! I must respect all brides before me.
You think it was easy, and now you know. The extra inches helped to raise the
confidence a bit but it didn’t matter after all because the groom is tall and
it’s only fitting. But not complaining right here. The little pain is nothing compared to the
joy. It didn’t just tip the scale, it tumbled it!
The extra inches...
At some point, you forget all the exhaustion, the anxiety,
the butterflies in the stomach, and just focus on making miracles and hoping for
the best. And the smiles just came on naturally. We kinda just winged and well
swung it, you know, like the saying goes, doing our best and letting the rest
takes care of itself.
But you should have seen my groom. If the bride was radiant,
then he was beaming! He’s never looked more handsome. My pillar of strength. My
soul mate. My significant otter. My husband.
The signing ceremony. We just realised that the smile never left his face...
Oh don’t you roll your eyes at me, my lovelies. Haha! Allow
me this moment right here right now because this does not happen to a girl
every day and no matter what you say I will insist on writing
too-sweet-till-your-tooth-ache posts like this. ^^
The whole journey including (and most of all) the
preparations has been truly remarkable. A one of a kind adventure really. Our respective families have been really
supportive and fabulous too. I must say that couples who co-fund their own wedding made a
lot of decision-making fairly easy because parents don't get in the way too much, although we try to compromise wherever we
can to please both parties and listen to elderly advice as often as we can. Happy parents make happy future newlyweds, yes?
By the way, I’m not going to apologize because we didn’t
serve liquor that night at the reception. I believe you don’t really need alcohol to
have fun. Sober fun is real fun, right? But that's just me. Nevertheless I thank you that all of our friends
and families in attendance were perfectly sporting. You guys rock!
Appreciation door gifts... Left for morning, right for evening...
Even the band was awesome! I actually found them via a friend who posted in FB pics of them performing. I went around asking and got the manager's number, and the rest is well, country history. They sang all my favorite songs (ones which I helped pick beforehand of course). It has always been a dream to have Alan Jackson sing at my wedding... and this was close to perfect. (p/s: If you want the contacts, buzz me...)
Country band, The Hybrid. Mr Paka, now a good friend, on the keyboard..
Oh did you hear about the surprise? I had a hard time
deciding whether I should or not, and where I should do it… in church or during
the reception. I almost bailed out because that was one heck of a reception
dress I was wearing… heavy, real pretty, with a long train that made walking
around nearly impossible. But after requesting the Live Band to prepare an
acoustic guitar for me days beforehand, I just had to you know, make use of it.
And after a split second decision, I texted the MC. Am not a professional
guitarist, I only play in church, real stage-shy, and my voice is shaky at
best… but I just gotta do it. There wasn’t a better time than the one currently
presented to me. If I didn’t, I would forever regret it.
And so, for vanity's sake … Voila!
Le groom... one hand holding digital lyrics, the other on his own phone...
I know it was never done. So yeah, that felt really good! I
knew the Groom were especially astounded! Asking him to help me hold the lyrics
on the phone was just a ploy to keep him standing next to me so I can have both
moral support and well… in case I get too nervous and forget the lyrics.
Most brides were afraid they might trip on their dresses
while walking down the aisle. Me… I was so afraid I was going to cry during the
solemnization ceremony because I know my parents were. If I were a parent, I
would be crying too. And that would totally ruin my carefully applied makeup. But
thank God I didn’t, although it was a real challenge not to.
My playful flowergirls Lil Yaya (standing) and Lil Maemae on rehearsal night...
Even when my 6 year-old flowergirl, little Maemae kept
staring at me adoringly when she thought I wasn’t watching, I could feel slow
tears pricking my eyes. You know what she did? After the ceremony, she told her
mom that after this I won’t be coming home again, and then she ran home to hide
and cry. I didn’t know whether to laugh or cry with her. The little girl has so
much love in her it just broke me up to realise how deeply she begins to
understand life.
I supposed in life, you just have to lose some and win some.
But never compromise where love is concerned.
The official appearance at last... See who's beaming the most?
So that’s it for now all you lovely followers and silent
readers! I am so glad you all have been
there for me virtually through thick and thin, and
because Blogging is what sparked this romance in the first place. You do
realise I’m sharing all this personal special details because I sayang you all right?
Tell you more about my preparation, bridal of choice, crucial wedding tips and the Bali adventure when I come back. Until then, hold that thought!
Lots of love,
No more a singular Coffee Girl.
