Wednesday, March 14, 2012

Besties ...

This is a mixed feeling post. But altogether not a sad one.

The fellowship of the three-ring is about to be broken with the upcoming nuptial of one person in the group. Broken, but only to give room to grow up. And grow separately without growing apart.

And I quote: When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives mean the most to us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a warm and tender hand. The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing, not curing, not healing and face with us the reality of our powerlessness, that is a friend who cares.

To my two besties, I will miss the dramas, the conflicts, the shoulders to cry on, the shared gossips, the whack in the head, the muffled loud giggles in the cinema, and the craziness we created.

All the best to the one who will start the journey with a new bestie. And to the other two who might've each found their own. Raise your glasses pals, let's celebrate life! *chink!*

Pics courtesy of Friendship Wallpaper

The final fellowship...

P/s: If either of you need a coffee buddy, just buzz me. I'm a sip away, unless I'm in another State or Country. Xoxo.


  1. life without living in grayscale world. hahaha

  2. Deng... I'm still around la...Hope no news of transferring just far no la...u still can buzz me for coffee...currently free hehehe :) lalalala.. just text me :)... the steamboat date we haven't decide just yet :) ... I'm still your friend and always :)

  3. Hanie: betul tu, macam life without photoshop. hahaha. and without vanila icecream. sigh...

    eBeez82: hahaha aku drama jak kejap tek, yalah u ada tapi jarang juak jumpa. bila date steamboat tek? gago dah eh. malam esok mok?

  4. Mun ada besties best.. Ujung bulan pau MekDI.. haha..

  5. ah...its another phase of the life cycle, normal la rite? we are getting older ngeeeee. Yeah i dun have a blog, not good at writing and expressing...but i think i'm dam good a complaning lol...;p.

  6. Hi CoffeeGirl....
    it's very true what you posted. But life has to go on....but only a few keys to keep in touch.

    A simple friend has never seen you cry.
    A real friend has shoulders soggy from your tears.
    A simple friend doesn't know your parents' first names.
    A real friend has their phone numbers in his address book.
    A simple friend brings a bottle of wine to your party.
    A real friend comes early to help you cook and stays late to help you clean.
    You have a nice day.

  7. AmirFx: apooh... amatnya wai! sik alang2 McD... steamboat weh!

    stan: i can see that. complain is part of life cycle also what. haha.

    Uncle Lee: Yes, life must go on. But i like the part about the soggy shoulders, and the part about helping me cook. altho for the cooking part, i supposed a simple friend wud follow all ur directions, but a real friend will give u a piece of their mind on how it should be cooked! hahaha

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  9. Every time move pi new place, i will always berat ati because of the great friendship that i create with the people at that current place... but the good things is that, even we are separated by boundaries, seas etc but the good things is that FB ada, IM ada, Blog ada, Phone ada... so it is just our own initiave mok kekalkan that frenship ka sik... and also create a new great frenship with new besties you found at the new place... :-D

  10. Rose Ragai: Exactly! once we move away, we can kekalkan that friendship but it wont be like before. :-( but life goes on and every new day is an opportunity to make it the best we can. Amen!

  11. Good friends are hard to find but when you find them, they are for keeping! :) Happy Friday my dear. Btw I am meeting my bestie tonight. Look forward to it! :p

  12. What is life without friends and without besties... I'm thankful that I am blessed with so many who are always there for me anytime, any place, praise the Lord!

  13. i'm touched! rasanya smua org pun akan lalui bnda yang sama kan.. i miss my friends too.. but entah, masing2 ada life masing2 suda skrg..

  14. Fina: yalah kan... semua dah pisah tapi masih kawan, cuma situasi berbeza sudah. :-(


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